How to Greet Locals in UAE: Handshake, Salam, Eye Contact

Start with the Right Words

Begin every greeting with As-salamu alaykum. The standard reply is Wa alaykum as-salam. This short exchange works in offices, shops, and social settings across Dubai, Abu Dhabi, and the other emirates. Many locals also add a warm Marhaba or Ahlan. Keep your tone calm and respectful; loud or overly familiar greetings can feel out of place.

Handshake or No Handshake?

Handshakes are common between men. Offer a light, brief grip and release, often with the right hand only. When greeting a woman, wait for her to extend her hand first. In many workplaces and government offices this has become standard, yet some Emirati women prefer not to shake hands with men. In that case, place your right hand over your heart and nod slightly instead. Same-gender handshakes among women remain usual and expected.

Eye Contact and Personal Space

Steady but soft eye contact shows attention during conversation. Avoid staring, especially with someone of the opposite sex you have just met. Maintain about an arm's length distance. Stepping too close can feel intrusive, while looking away too quickly may seem dismissive. In formal meetings, follow the lead of the most senior person present.

Business and Official Settings

At ICP service centres, MOHRE offices, or client meetings, start with the verbal greeting, then wait for cues on the handshake. Titles matter, so use Mr, Dr, or Sheikh followed by the first name unless invited to do otherwise. Exchange business cards with both hands or the right hand only, and glance at the card before putting it away.

Social Gatherings and Family Homes

When invited to an Emirati home, greet the eldest person first. Remove shoes if others are doing so. Gifts of dates, Arabic coffee sets, or high-quality chocolates are appreciated. If the gathering is mixed, men and women often sit in separate areas. Follow the host's lead on greetings and seating.

Quick Mistakes to Avoid

• Do not offer a handshake to a woman before she extends hers.
• Never use the left hand for greetings or passing items.
• Avoid back-slaps or overly firm grips.
• Do not take photos during private greetings without permission.

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